Relationships

Boundaries

bound·a·ries

What does Boundaries mean?

The lines that show where you end and others begin. Boundaries protect your time, energy and wellbeing.

Another way of seeing Boundaries

Think of a boundary as a fence with a gate rather than a wall. It shows what's yours to care for and lets you choose who comes in. Here's what most people miss: boundaries make you more generous, not less. Without them, every yes is quietly resentful. With them, every yes is real.

Boundaries in relationships

A boundary is about what you will do, not what someone else must do. ‘If the shouting starts, I'll leave the room’ is a boundary. ‘You have to stop shouting’ is a request. Know the difference, and use both wisely.

Boundaries in everyday life

Notice where you feel a small flash of resentment today. It often marks a boundary waiting to be drawn. Practise one kind, clear ‘no’.

Carry this with you

A clear no makes room for a real yes.

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